Managing Your Risk Of Date Failure

You took your chance and asked her. And she said yes! You are overjoyed. Don't be too happy yet. You need to plan the date now.

Date planning is something that most men and women avoid to do. This includes both the one taking the initiative to ask and the person who accepted. This is a clear mistake. Date planning is critical to both parties. Alex Hitch was right after all. But, you don't need to eat foods that cause allergy to succeed.

Remember that you have to make sure the other party enjoyed the date before you can ask her out again. First dates should be something enjoyable for the both of you, so the activity or activities on your first date should be something that the both of you agree on.

Many men make the mistake of making the first date to be ludicrous, that's why they never succeed. What do I mean by ludicrous? Alex Hitch was right in his dating principles, but the way everything is so smoothly planned is IMPOSSIBLE. That's why it's a movie!

My definition of ludicrous means:
1.Doing something that is totally extraordinary
2.Totally shifting your personality till she finds you ideal.

Before I do in-depth about date planning, I need you to know what the risk of date failure is. Complex activities during a date expose you to a larger risk of date failure. Date failure ranges from spilling the drink all over her dress to saying something that boots her off immediately Do something simple on your first date. It is easy to manage the risk of date failure.

If you have already asked someone to go to a movie, find out what genre of films she is interested in before deciding on a film together. Usually, a woman would say to the man, "Your choice, I am fine with any movie." There is a big danger sign right here. She is waiting to see if you have already did some research about her likes and dislikes. After all, you are so enthusiastic in asking her out? If you do choose her dislikes too many times during the date, she is going to assume that you are only interested in her because of her looks. And this consequence of her thinking of you as wholly superficial is not going to get you a second date.

Trust me on this. Do your research well. Ask her friends. Ask her relatives. Ask her siblings. Ask anyone around her. Bear in mind that the more information you possess about her, you are able to decrease the risk of date failure.

The most important purpose of the first date is to ensure that you get a second date. The game of observation continues until the third date. If you feel really uncomfortable with this person, decide only at the third date.

Don't be bashful about sharing your likes and dislikes. Believe me, you will end up in the worst, awkward dating situations. If you are a vegetarian, can you imagine what will happen you agree to go to a steakhouse just because the girl insists? I don't know about you but I know one person forced meat down his throat in 14 years and he was vomiting in less than 5 minutes. It wasn't pretty. If you are allergic to seafood and your date suggests going to a restaurant that specializes in shellfish meals, please tell her.