She Is Jealous Of The Guys

Guy time is guy time. It's sacred. It's when you need to be in that zone with your buds to guzzle beer, watch sports and basically do guy things. It's a time to recharge. Being in a relationship is great-but relationship activities (watching movies, having a quiet dinner, walking in the park, grocery shopping and doing the laundry together) can get any guy edgy if he overdoses. So you need your guy time, where you can be your guy self. So, naturally, it gets bothersome when your partner starts giving you a hard time whenever you head out for your weekly guys night out.

She says: You're hanging out with the guys all the time. We hardly spend any time together any more. Sounds familiar? Tell her you need this time to go out as an escape (even if sometimes that might be the case.) If she still gets jealous, perhaps you could try building up her confidence. Be sure to take every opportunity to tell your partner how much you love her and why you wouldn't want to be with anyone else.

Give lots of compliments and talk about the wonderful future you're looking forward to spending with her. If all else fails, make her see how hanging out with the guys has the same therapeutic effect as her weekly shopping sprees.