She Is Jealous Of Her Friends Getting Married

There comes a time in your adult life when wedding invites come in a flurry almost in an epidemic-like fashion. There's nothing fundamentally wrong with your relationship. In fact, things are going swell for the both of you. It's just that top 10 months is just too soon for you to pop that question. However, your girlfriend might be getting antsy as she attends one wedding dinner after another. She's not pressing to get married but yet she can't help but feel some level of jealousy about others marital bliss, talk of honeymoons and huge diamond engagement rings. Inevitably, this creeps into your relationship and, at times, you find her quizzing you about "our future" and getting glum over your "wait and see" approach.

Stay calm. What she's feeling is totally normal. But flee if she starts planning for your wedding without even discussing it. Seriously, if you care about your partner and do see yourself getting married to her (just not now!), be upfront with her. The truth always helps. It might be a bitter reality pill for her to swallow, but at least she'll understand your intentions and appreciate your honesty.

The worst thing you could do is to pop the question just so she'll stop feeling so jealous about her girlfriends, tell her that you'd like to get married to her for all the right reasons and would rather not succumb to peer pressure.